Sexual Consent.

We at www.ohlalashop.co.uk have before Covid-19 travelled to many swinging and fetish clubs all over the UK. We have to say all the clubs we have been to have been very professionally run. There has been a very strict no drugs policy in the clubs as well as a very clean environment. This is coupled with a very positive attitude to sexually transmitted infections with free condoms, free advice on HIV as well as contact details for test clinics.

We go to these clubs to set up our pop up shop to sell to the members attending the club and have made a huge amount of friends from the clubs that we still have regular contact with now. These people are not weird or strange they are just normal people who have decided to live an alternative life style. We have always witnessed a very happy welcoming attitude from the members of the clubs we have gone too and we have to say we have never witnessed any fighting or aggression. 

Obviously these days most of the UK swinging and fetish clubs are closed because of Covid-19. There is one aspect of club life that is always a very hot topic and that is sexual consent. Within the UK swinging and fetish club scene there is no grey area when it comes to sexual consent. NO means NO. Night clubs might put up with men groping women or being pushy but the swinging and fetish clubs will not stand for it you will asked anyone who is misbehaving to leave immediately.

The topic of sexual consent got us talking this week because recently in the UK press there have been stories of the small amount of rape cases that get to court and that there is a feeling amongst women that they are being let down. Defence lawyers will always try to paint a picture of the woman being over suggestive, loose. What they wear comes under heavy scrutiny. How they lead their lives comes under the microscope. 

We sell a large range of lingerie here at www.ohlalashop.co.uk and of course some of it has a sexual suggestive look. 


 The Avanua Salima Bustier 

https://www.ohlalashop.co.uk/Avanua-Salima-Corset 

From the European lingerie house Avanua with over 30% off RRP.  In stock with same day discreet dispatch from Bridgend, UK, and tracked worldwide delivery.  Salima is an erotic black shiny bustier with teasing open cups.  It also features a pretty pink bow accents and a mesh frill trim.  The Avanua Salima bustier has adjustable garter straps, with a matching G-string in a beautiful presentation gift box.  Shown with stockings (not included)

 This bustier looks super sexy and if a lady wanted to take her passion further then she should be in control of any sexual encounter. 

We have other examples of very sexy lingerie the Magic Silk Exposed Liquid Onyx Double Keyhole Black Dress And G String again has an exposed cleavage look and is made from a stretch material that hugs a woman curves. 


 Magic Silk Exposed Liquid Onyx Double Keyhole Black Dress And G String 


Magic Silk Exposed liquid onyx double keyhole black dress with G-string is part of the international lingerie house Magic Silk Exposed collection from California.  In stock with same day discreet dispatch from Bridgend, UK and tracked worldwide delivery.  Accentuating the beauty of your natural curves this design features cut out panels in all the right places and the figure hugging shape flatters your figure.  Its a black wet look dress that has a glossy stretch fabric and a plunge keyhole neckline to show off your bust.  It comes complete with a matching G-string.

Sexual consent in swingers clubs is very important No should mean no. Certainly as UK swinging and fetish clubs open up people will be able to act out their fantasies in the knowledge that thy are going to be safe.

The fetish community have a great responsibility when it comes to sexual consent as the person dishing out the punishment must have the control to stop if ask. The fetish community has worked out a way of safe guarding itself by establishing a safe word before any play starts. This safe word system gives those playing the reassurance that if the play gets to intense than you can mention the safe word and the play stops. When you look at some of items used in fetish play you quickly understand the importance in having such a system in place. Items such as the dirty leather flogger the metal workz clock clamp show that you have to use them safely and sexual consent has a very big importance in making sure everything is safe.


 British Leather Handmade Flogger Large:

https://www.ohlalashop.co.uk/British-Leather-Handmade-Flogger-Large

 

British leather handmade flogger (large) beautifully crafted in Bristol, UK.  In stock with same day discreet dispatch from Bridgend, UK and tracked worldwide delivery.  This leather flogger is made from saddle quality British leather.   It is all hand crafted with a brown pot riveted handle and black falls.  The handle is copper pot riveted for strength.  The handle measures approximately 27cm in length 8cm in width.  The falls part measures approximately 44cm in length 3cm in width.  This gives an over all length of 67cm top to tip.  The flogger is beautifully balanced and gives a startling crack sting or thud  when used properly. 



 Metal Worx Adjustable Cock Clamp:

https://www.ohlalashop.co.uk/Metal-Worx-Adjustable-Cock-Clamp


The Pipe Dream adjustable cock clamp is created by an intensely firm, blissfully temperature-receptive steel material. In stock with same day dispatch and world wide delivery. Pipe Dream's Metal Worx collection presents the Adjustable Cock Clamps, a unique tool created specifically for some seriously playful, advanced-level adventures.  Definitely designed to grab and keep the attention of mate, the weighty clamp looks positively irresistible as it holds tight around base, balls or both, remaining in place remarkably well through flicking, tugging and normal movement during playtime. 
A versatile, unique design centres around six blunt-ended screws that twist open and closed smoothly once placed over the penis. Once positioned and tightened up, the clamp hangs on tight for a stimulating pressure that's been described as quite intense, and probably more suited to experienced users.  As an added pleasure bonus, steel is very receptive to temperature, so aside from naturally warming with body heat, you'll also be able to cool the clamp dramatically, just pop in the fridge before using, or place in warm or cool water.  
The clamp's nonporous surface cleans easily and can be completely sterilised if need be, soap and water or a good toy cleaner works just fine for everyday cleaning, but you'll also be able to wipe down with a bleach solution, or place in boiling water.  There's very little maintenance required with steel toys, care should be taken not to scratch the surface with abrasive surfaces or cleaners, but that's about all you'll need to worry about. Sturdy foam-lined storage and travel case included.
* The Adjustable Cock Clamp is approximately 2 inches (22.9cm) in total diameter, adjusting down to 1/4" (19mm). Approximately 4oz (113.4g).

Location: Bridgend, UK

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